“Take it a bit at a time” is an instruction from parents and teachers that we have heard ever since we were little.
Because it works.
Whether it was learning to read or executing a dance move, we learned better when we broke steps down into chunks. This certainly is how the greatest musicians practice even to this day; small chunks which are later connected to form larger phrases. So we must take this approach when learning anything new, and we also must recognize (and celebrate) our successes along the way, no matter how small they are.
When I am teaching my son to read, we break words into chunks (sounds of letters), then we group letters, then try the words. Then the words become the “chunk” of the sentence; sentences become paragraphs, and on and on…
Take the habit you may be focusing on now as an example. Are you trying to create the perfect spending plan? Learning to swim? Playing an instrument?
Once you have focused on something, here’s what you do:
Engrave the skill in your brain.
If you are learning to swim, watch videos of swimmers for 15 minutes each day. Learning an instrument? Do the same…YouTube is a beautiful thing! Watch videos of great motivational speakers like Dave Ramsey or other financial gurus to engrave the perfect financial habits in your brain.
Do this daily, right before you venture into doing the skill yourself.
Break it down
Ask yourself: What is the smallest actionable step toward executing this skill that you can take right now?
Is it simply laying flat in the pool with a kick board to get your breathing down pat? How about a segment of a scale or half of one measure of music? If you master just the “grocery” line of your budget for the week by menu planning, is that not progress?
Make the connection
Figure out what the next chunk to that skill is. For swimming it may be taking one stroke after laying flat. Another line of the budget would be the next step after groceries. You get the idea.
Connect one chunk to the other, but only after you have mastered each one. And keep going…
Just like putting sounds to words, then to sentences, right?
No matter what the skill is, the same rules apply:
Visualize where you want to be; break it down into very simple chunks; then connect them.
Be happy perfecting small steps, as opposed to completing a whole task in mediocre fashion.